There’s no bigotry to be had, in my case (I’m not a very active activator) I’m happy to do QSOs with all of my chasers when I’m on a summit.
Guru @EA2IF if you are a little curious take a look at the GoGreen XOTA program and you will be able to see since 2020 (start of the program) how many non Sota (GMA & WFF) you have contacted!
It is however very often SOTA activators which are on peaks with multiple references.
We can understand that you are irritated by the practice of certain operators, the best is to do what you usually do, send them an email 
To avoid the many 44s or others, it would be wise not to put double SOTA and WFF alerts and spots…
And as Yoda said “may the force be with you” 
73 Éric