Many, many thanks for all of the very kind comments - they really do help.
I have been busy making arrangements and apologise for the delay in response.
My wife was a very keen hill walker and mountaineer and indeed, came with me on many of my leading trips around the world - she did Munro challenges, charity climbs
and many other activities - this was taken from her some eight years ago when the MS cut in culminating in a nasty fall when in the Austrian alps.
I promised that if she should pass before me I would spread her ashes on the top of Ben Nevis - so this will be done along with an activation in her memory.